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FAQs
What are your taboos and limits?
I am a classical dominatrix. I do not engage in any services provided by vanilla escorts. I am always dressed. I do not allow body worship beyond foot worship or provide any service that ends in the phrase “job.” I do not switch or sub.
My domination limits are scat, vomit, underage participants, permanent damage, and cuckold sessions.
Consent is crucial for all participants in my sessions.
What are your physical stats?
Height: 173cm (5’8″)
Weight: 64kg
Shoe size: 39
If it is important to you, I am 50, and my birthday is on the 13th of May. Thank you; I do look fantastic for my age. Paris has great dermatologists, and I like to keep myself fit.
When are you available?
Where are you from?
I am an American in Paris. I am originally from a very rural area in Nevada, and you have never heard of these places. I lived in New York City for seven years and reached my highest level of fame as a dominatrix there. I moved to Europe in 2010.
What languages do you speak?
English is my native language, and I am the most comfortable speaking it. My French is conversational. I can read well, write okay, and understand when you talk clearly, but I still fumble when I speak. My Spanish is basic when needed. I studied Japanese at university but can only say some remedial phrases after not using it for so long.
How long have you been a professional dominatrix?
I started my career as a professional domina in July 1997, so I have 27 years of experience as of this writing.
What do you do when you're not in the dungeon?
Living in Paris, I love to explore the arts, museums, operas, music, and other performances. To keep myself balanced, I also enjoy distance running, boxing, yoga, and meditation. I am a ravenous reader and a mighty fine cook if I say so myself.
Is your dungeon for rent?
Studio Xéme is available for couples for two hours to multiple days.
"The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity."
-Dorothy Parker
How much is a session?
My femdom sessions are 350€ for one hour, 525€ for one and a half hours, 700€ for two hours, and 1000€ for three hours. This is for my time in my private dungeon. I do not have add-ons or additional charges.
Where are you located?
My dungeon is between Gare de l’Est and Canal Saint Martin in central Paris. Metro stop Gare de l’Est, Republique or Strasbourg-Saint Denis. Parking is available at Gare de l’Est.
How do I schedule a session?
You can easily make an appointment through the scheduling application. It’s the same application used to schedule massages, haircuts, and similar services. You complete a brief form and pay 20% of the session cost as a deposit. You will immediately receive an email with the dungeon location and a link if you need to change the day or time of your appointment. Your time will be set in my calendar, and I will receive an email with your completed form to prepare for our time together. I never see the details of your payment information.
How much time do I need to schedule a session in advance?
In short, as soon as you have your dates and times. A day’s notice usually suffices, but don’t delay scheduling until the last minute if your time is limited. A same-day session can be considered, but I will need several hours to prepare and get to the dungeon. “Now” is never an option available.
Do you see women?
I see submissives of all genders and orientations. Everyone deserves a safe place to explore their submissive desires.
Can I come with my partner?
Yes. I have several options for couples. I require negotiation with each person before play for full consent. A domination session DOES NOT make a good surprise for your partner, and surprise sessions will be denied.
Can I film or take photos of my session?
Videos and photos can be taken for personal use and to create lasting memories as long as they do not interfere too much with the play.
Is your dungeon accessible?
My building has a small elevator after a few steps to the building’s front door. If you have mobility issues, I am happy to assist you.
Can you come to see me at my place?
I consider outcall sessions on a case-by-case basis. My tribute is 500€ for the first hour and 350€ every hour after that. Travel time of more than 30 minutes will incur an extra fee.
Should I tip or bring a gift?
That is entirely up to you and not required. I don’t have a wishlist, but little things like flowers, stockings, and books are always appreciated. I eat healthy but never turn away chocolates. A gift card for a massage would be a great indulgence if you are so inclined. Alcohol is not a good gift for me.
