Luxembourg is two hours by train from Paris, but at times, it is an entirely different world and a new frontier for Luxembourg BDSM. Thankfully, I do well speaking English or French and have yet to be tested in Luxembourgish. I have found a decent Luxembourg dungeon to play in and a small but eager BDSM community.

I encountered other obstacles in finding compatible players when visiting Luxembourg, such as standing out among the advertising with the numerous listings of dominas seeking online scenes or FMTY situations. Worse yet, there were many catfishing profiles. I even found photos of my friend Mistress Trinity, who was not, in fact, visiting Luxembourg under a new name. It was blatant and obvious.

A Real Mistress in Luxembourg

I wanted to prove that I was real and actually in (or soon to be visiting) Luxembourg. So I asked my long-time Parisian collaborator, Miss May, to join me for a shoot in the city itself, starting with an outdoor stroll in the Vallée de la Pétrusse.

It was Spring, and the flowers were virtually exploding through the lush, green valley. I loved that we took some photos with the flowers, which I felt paired so well with my ultra-feminine dominatrix outfit. Luckily, we were shooting on a Wednesday morning, and I could flick my long, leather single tail without disturbing anyone. It looked like a BDSM fairytale with this “mini château.” Here I present almost 100 photos from our stroll!

While this was perfect for establishing I was actually in the city, it was more challenging to show the Luxembourg BDSM aspects of my presentation without raising some eyebrows or potential legal conflicts in a public space. So off we went to the dungeon!

In the past, I have shied away from strap-on pictures because, if one is not careful, they can come across as vulgar or even a lowest common denominator thing. I was fortunate, however, thanks to the guidance of Miss May, to keep the photos quite elegant and approachable. Since this type of play is one of the most requested when I visit, I’ve created a dedicated strap-on page to keep my Luxembourg kinksters informed about my approach.

I appreciate that Miss May takes photos of the real me, and we have a lot of fun. I often have to fight with photographers to take pictures of me smiling, as perhaps smiling goes against their vision of a scowling, intimidating dominatrix. I’m a happy dominatrix. You submit to me because it’s fun, not because I bully you. I am pleased we took so many photos of me smiling, and even though they aren’t suitable for marketing, I want to share some pictures of me goofing around on the bondage swing–using it for an actual swing.

What is Luxembourg BDSM? A hint in photos

We also took many photos, including very traditional femdom options, primarily illustrating the BDSM gear I usually bring with me to Luxembourg. These photos helped round out my BDSM Luxembourg webpage.

With these new photos and my announcement of my brand of femdom arriving in Luxembourg, I hope to cultivate many ongoing relationships for continuing Luxembourg BDSM journeys.