Aside from being a hackneyed joke, handcuffs are the worst entry into bondage. These so easily hurt beginners, leaving them scratching their heads over what all the fuss is about.
Are Police Cuffs Good for Bondage Beginners?
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How do you Clean BDSM Dungeon Toys?
Nothing is infallible and kills 100% of germs, but these methods are held to higher standards found in hospitals. With so much disinfecting, each material gets special treatment.
Do Kinky Submissives and Slaves have Any Rights?
In short, yes. Yes, of course. While free falling into letting go of all control is the sensation subs are seeking, there are some rules to follow, and, in fact, they can take the worries off when a sub does let go making for a better experience. I’ve put together a starter set of rights
How do you Get into “Domme Mode?”
Just as in writing a story, painting a tableau, or any other creative endeavor, there is a process, a beginning, before beginning. I have some things that I do that transition me, not into top space, but prepared to meet someone's energy. Almost always, this process...
What’s the Best Thing to do to be a Better Slave?
On one of my first trips to Paris, I received a slave to my apartment and opened the door to him in the corridor with cash in his mouth. Before entering, he fell to his knees and clambered on all fours into my entry. I stood still in shock and horror, a cardboard...