Mind Games

Without the mental aspect, kink is vulgar, but in context, it is elegant and refined. The biggest sex organ is your brain, and we will build all play on this foundation. This aspect starts as the most elemental aspect of my sessions: D/s role-play. In role-play, we take on different characters to reinforce your submission. The most obvious and common are “Mistress and slave.” Slaves don’t think, they don’t worry, and they certainly don’t make decisions. They only await instructions from the Mistress with a clear mind, ready to execute her orders. For me, this type of role-play is effortless and natural. I like to be the boss, and I have fun with this game. There can be other characters to accommodate your particular mood or fetish, such as a nurse/patient, governess/schoolboy, boss/employee, villainess/captured superhero, or even a futuristic prison guard milking her alien captive. Imagination is welcome when dreaming up play scenarios.

CFNM is an acronym for “Clothed Female, Naked Male,” and its purpose is to exacerbate the power imbalance. This imbalance is even more apparent when I am dressed in full latex or leather, like battle armor, as you linger beneath me, naked except for a collar at the end of my leash. The submission aspects are apparent, but also, the nudity of the submissive can be simultaneously humbling and freeing.

Humiliation may sound intense or even silly. Unlike the movies, I have never told someone to “bark like a dog.” I prefer more subtle humiliation. My condescension is still warm and full of laughter to illicit that butterflies-in-your-stomach feeling that makes you shift your weight in subtle shrugs through your body. As the scene progresses, you might crave another hit of this intoxicating play, maybe even more. Humiliation in an erotic context can escalate, causing the explicit words to have a profound effect on you. We will negotiate any humiliation or degradation beforehand, as not all words will resonate with everyone. You will have some unique words that mean the most to your psyche. Don’t be afraid to share.

Erotic Domination

Torment is not always painful. Intense suffering arises from the anticipation of pleasure, and surprisingly, much more severe is an overload of pleasure. Perhaps you have never thought about overindulgence in the quiet Duchy of Luxembourg, let alone the excess of bliss in a Luxembourg dungeon as torture. I will explain it to you.

Tease and denial, or “edging,” involves bringing you close to orgasm and then stopping right before culmination, prolonging the experience and, each time, escalating the highs. After considerable training, some can maintain this rising pleasure to a frenzy for hours. I find this frenzy of both pleasure and pain fascinating and would love to put you in this state. At the end of this game, a few paths might happen.

The fruition of orgasm after prolonged teasing will be intense and lead to a “peaceful collapsing.” You will be finished and ready for a nap. I suggest you plan a quiet time after our playtime.

If you are not finished, we can explore milking, which is utilizing a machine such as the Tremblr milking machine. These types of devices keep going, causing an involuntary reaction by your body to ejaculate again. The goal of a milking session is to force orgasms beyond your comfort until you are spent. Not everyone is physically able to do this, as everyone has a different refractory period.

The finish without the release is called a ruined orgasm. Your arousal stops, but you don’t feel satisfied. It’s not at all painful, but it’s definitely torture. Some submissives try to prove their true masochism by having a ruined orgasm before other sadomasochistic games to feel the pain sensations fully. You might think about that, but perhaps you are not there to experience that part just yet.

Very sexy dominance and submission options are strapon and other anal games. These games are a popular addition to my sessions, and I further explain them on their web page.

Fetishism

When something not traditionally associated with sex elicits strong sexual responses, it can be called a “fetish.” Indeed, some of these things can add to your BDSM session or can be the entire focus of the session. Your fetishes can be derived from early connections when you were developing. Or I have been known to “create” fetishists with strong positive associations with things I like.

With my delicate toes and high arches, the most significant request in this realm is a foot fetish. I must project my love for vintage-style stockings, high-heeled shoes, and boots to get many pleas for foot-related sessions. This may be the first time you have considered the feel of soft, clean feet on your face. My feet are slightly sweaty from my shoes but are delicately scented with pheromones and fine leather.

Where? The Dungeon Ambiance 

It’s remarkable to play in a proper dungeon in Luxembourg. The lighting and setting set the mood, causing your mind to drift to all the potential games. As a seasoned player, I appreciate that the room is set up for privacy, including noise reduction.

Classic BDSM

Bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism take skills that are learned over time and instincts that are honed along the way. I provide a skilled experience that is both thrilling and safe.