Those outside of the fetish scene might not realize how much effort it takes to clean BDSM dungeon toys. Those who know will be assured with my elaborate disinfecting ritual. Every surface touched in my dungeon has a three-fold cleaning technique taught to me by doctors, including infectious disease specialists. Nothing is infallible and kills 100% of germs, but these methods are held to higher standards found in hospitals. With so much disinfecting, I have found it better to invest in quality, sturdy materials that can withstand such rigorous cleaning. Still, each material gets special treatment. It is crucial to clean BDSM dungeon toys the correct way to keep everyone safe.

Step 1: Superficial Wiping

For my convenience, I use handy disinfectant wipes to clean off superficial dirt, skin cells, and oils on each surface. It is best to use wipes specifically designed for cleaning general surfaces. Baby wipes are intended for the skin and leave behind a lotion residue, making subsequent steps more challenging. I have seen this as the whole routine by other BDSM practitioners. This is only acceptable if you play exclusively with one partner.

Step 2: Disinfectant Procedures

This step is where it gets complicated. It may seem like a lot, but it will benefit in the long run. The materials of your playspace are not homogeneous, so you need different cleaners to clean BDSM dungeon toys

One of the reasons I prefer to have many non-porous surfaces is that they can be cleaned with such intensity. Vinyl, metal, rigid plastic, and the like can be cleaned with industrial-grade detergent soap. Nothing makes me more confident in the cleanliness of my equipment than using a special cleaner. Be sure to wear gloves, as it can dry out your skin. Wash it all off after cleaning, as the residue will be sticky and unpleasant.

Silicone toys need special treatment with a special soap spray. I use MR B Clean Care. This soap is gentler, so the silicone doesn’t break down. Because of this, I always like to have them covered when I use them—with gloves or condoms—before they come into contact with skin. If they can’t be covered, I recommend a UV or chem cleaning box such as this UV Sex Toy Sterilizer from Oxy Shop.

For porous surfaces–mainly leather and wood, the choice for disinfecting is rubbing alcohol. It is essential to let the alcohol dry, rather than wiping it off or washing it off. Rubbing alcohol kills bacteria by dehydrating them. So as you can see, washing it off–just adding water defeats the purpose. Of course, it will dry out the material along with the bacteria cooties, but that is the trade-off for sanitary practices. Do not use soap on leather or wood; it will absorb and become sticky. There is nothing sexy about grabbing an implement to find the surface gummy and sticky in your hand.

Step 3: Antiviral Wipes

These wipes can be found on medical supply websites. After the first two steps, getting the product on the surfaces to kill colds, flu, and other viral nasties should be easy. I often used these as a moment to wipe up any leftover soap residue.

The Conclusion of Why Clean BSDM Dungeon Toys is so Important to me

Do you have to do all of these things? Probably not, but it helps me feel confident when I select a toy from my arsenal. Instead, I focus on what I will do to my subject rather than worry about whether I should use it. For me, this is a crucial step in establishing trust with my submissives. They should be in the moment of what I am doing to them, not wondering about the sanitation of my equipment. Be sure to check out all the things I have to clean in my Studio Xème.