Welcome The Handy into my edging arsenal

by Domina M | Top's Gear

My search for a traveling milking machine has yielded The Handy, which fits nicely in my toy bag and has an easy clamp and arm for hands-free stimulation. A fantastic feature of this device is its ability to work over Wi-Fi. I can control the device remotely from my...

The Ultimate Spanking Bench/Kink Play Station has Arrived!

by Domina M | This Week Tied Together

It was time to replace the spanking bench in my BDSM dungeon, Studio Xéme, and why not an upgrade? EvilToys, which makes many durable and ergonomically designed benches, was an obvious choice. Why not add on some extra features? How about ALL THE EXTRA FEATURES? Do I...

Nuit Élastique – Paris BDSM Party Review

by Domina M | This Week Tied Together, Kinky Life in Paris

As a person who insists on waking up at 6 AM every morning, I’m not what would be considered a “party girl.” I properly got that out of my system in New York City, where one could find excellent parties three to four times a week. When I explore a...

Erotic Humiliation; Unlocking Sexual Psychology

by Domina M | Ask M

The psychosexual realm of humiliation A few months ago, Jane Boon, author of Edge Play and FemDom Fancier, was in Paris, and over lunch, we started talking about different FemDom styles. This is one of my favorite topics, and I consider myself a “Hippie...

Want to Try Kink as a Submissive? Find out Which Type of BDSM Bottom you Are.

by Domina M | Quizzes

What type of BDSM bottom are you? There are so many flavors and situations in a kinky dynamic it can be confusing. Indeed, not all types are going to appeal to you, and when you see some dynamics, you might think that BDSM is not at all for you, and yet other...