The secret BDSM world of an American Dominatrix in Paris, France
Let me introduce you to the psycho-sexual sorcery of submission and BDSM. I invite you to meet me in my well-appointed dungeon in central Paris to explore the darker corners of your mind. It doesn’t matter if this will be your first time with a mistress or if you are a seasoned Femdom submissive, our time together will live in your head forever.
I am the celebrated New York dominatrix, Domina M, who has been residing in Paris for the past decade. I bring my unique brand of skilled and mindful kink to my adopted city via my elaborate dungeon, the likes never before seen in France.
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Welcome to my BDSM Dungeon, Studio Xème
I love elaborate gear. My decade in Paris has seen me build and rebuild my dungeon into a masterpiece of immersive art. While the dungeon is relatively compact, I make use of every inch, and all the furniture serves multiple purposes. I don’t have room for cheap toys. Just like everything in my life, all my equipment must justify its space in utility and quality.
The BDSM psychology of my dungeon is practical and theatrical. You feel as though you are both whisked away to a fantastical world, yet are simultaneously safe and comforted. I have given a tremendous amount of thought to every detail to ensure your comfort so that your only thoughts are about what I am doing. For example, you may be completely immobile and vulnerable, but no undue stress will be felt on your knees while on my bench. My hygiene and cleaning protocols exceed the standards of hospitals (techniques learned from an infectious disease specialist), which is another worry to leave your mind.
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The Alchemist in the Flesh as a Parisian Dominatrix
What happens in a BDSM session?
My approach to female domination is romantic, scientific, mindful, and, most of all, mischievous. My authority stems from my knowledge, intuition, and natural talent to make you feel at ease with submission. I have no use for systems of bullying, shouting, or other methods of intimidation. I am simply me. It’s much easier for me to inspire submission than to terrorize someone into it. Being strict and high protocol is not the same as being mean.
The first step is to schedule an appointment with the intake form. The form gives me a general idea of your interests and assures me that we are compatible. It does not replace the in-person interview upon arrival. This time allows me to see how you answer questions and begin the mental creation of our scene. More importantly, it will enable you to acclimate and become comfortable with me and your surroundings. We will fully define the experience you are seeking and our respectful limits. All of this creates an atmosphere that allows you to relax and enjoy. You know you will be just fine afterward, but you will have the most intense few hours of your life.
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But what REALLY happens in a BDSM session?
There isn’t a “standard” or “typical” session. I do not offer a generic beginner’s session. It’s impossible to create a “one-size-fits-all” experience as we build femdom sessions on deep connections and personalization. Yes, I have some specialties to suggest. Not every activity will interest you, nor should every activity excite you. This is why I ask you to learn more and communicate what excites you. We can leave your undesired activities to others.
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Enter the Paris Clinic
From a kinky and exposing medical exam to heavy MedFet play with all the tools and implements. I am your nurse or doctor to see when you want to explore medical fetish in Paris.
Immersive Bondage Mistress
I love all things bondage and taking you to another mental plane with leather, latex, ropes, and metal bondage devices. Let me tell you more and you can schedule a bondage session.
Domina M’s Femdom Blog
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Elite FemDom women, both professional and strictly lifestyle meet in Paris’ Maison Souquet for drinks and conversation.
Online Coaching for Femdom Couples to Achieve that Dynamic that Works for Everyone
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Shoe Gaze for Gazing at Shoes
Adding a first edition iPod to my dungeon, I could create specific playlists–PsychoEmotional Soundscapes. And I thought of them that way.