For many people, the iconic piece of dungeon furniture is the Saint Andrew’s cross. While that room dominating “X” evokes a lot of symbolic grandeur, I’ve never found it particularly useful. The spanking bench, though, that’s always been my favorite. When my spanking bench gave its final all last year, I returned to EvilToys.de, the creator of my bondage platform and suspension rig.

I wanted to get the most out of a new bench, which meant a design that gives me access to the body and remains comfortable. After securing someone, I didn’t want to worry about aches and knees. I didn’t want to have to undo my bondage work to gain access to nipples. With these criteria, I chose The Dominator Bench with a superb steel frame, comfortable padding, and quality pleather that not only could withstand my strict disinfection standards but also kept that dazzling “leather look” as well.

What are the significant elements I use in spanking bench play? We’ll start with spanking bench basics:

• Bondage (goes with everything)
• Nipple play
• Spanking (as the name spanking bench suggests)
• Pegging

Bondage

I don’t secure a person in every scene. Sometimes people are too large to be comfortable, or sometimes bondage is triggering to more profound trauma, so we skip it. Otherwise, I find bondage not only fun and rewarding as a practice for me, but it also aids in mental submission. The physical reminder actually helps the mind break free and focus on the scene.

Having said that, unless specifically requested, all my bondage is comfortable. I prefer highly restrictive and sustainable bondage to get that secure feeling. The bench is better padded and more comfortable than a massage table. Even the set of six cuffs I use is padded. The cuffs are quick and easy, securing you in place in a matter of moments. If I am feeling more mischievous, I bring out leather straps and further secure the head, arms, and torso.

Nipple Play

The chest piece on the bench cradles the sternum, but leaves the breast and nipples exposed. Whether you enjoy a little nipple stimulation or crave full-on NT, nipple torment/torture, I won’t have to halt the flow of play to access these erogenous zones. From tickling fingers to weighted, hanging clamps, I can incorporate all levels of nipple stimulation while maintaining my subject securely attached.

Spanking, Paddling, Flogging, and Whipping

This is the namesake for this classic BDSM dungeon piece. A bench allows you to stay in place while I wield my hand, paddle, flogger, or whip. This might matter to me more than it does to you, initially. If I am spanking, I need you to hold still, or my aim will be off, which will frustrate me and ultimately leave you with marks due to misplaced strikes.

Rest assured, The Dominator carries out this duty in style and function.

Pegging

For those whose submission leans towards the erotic, The Dominator Bench is ideally suited for pegging and other anal games. Not only does it secure you into a position that is easily accessible to me, but the legs also adjust in height to explore new and exciting angles.

These basic BDSM functions are what I really needed. But what about all the extra add-on attachments? Was it really necessary to upgrade an already highly functional spanking bench? We can debate the merits and return on investment, or we can see just how cool all the add-ons and an extra I that I had custom-made for me are.

Vibrator

The vibrator is the first tool in my tease and denial arsenal, and I use it liberally when I play. Now I have a custom brace to hold it on your most sensitive parts, which I find makes you oh-so much more pliable and malleable.

With the brace to hold it, I am free to incorporate different sensations. I love to layer and heighten sensations as I progress through the scene, eventually reaching sensory overload. My subject can’t think of much else when sensory overload is in action.

Tremblr

I custom-ordered a second brace for the Tremblr milking machine. As with the vibrator attachment, the Tremblr milking machine works completely hands-free. This feature liberates me to control your sensations remotely as I introduce more and more stimuli.

The trembler is a high-end masturbation machine that provides a unrelenting “sucking” sensation, painfully slow or painfully fast. It can work on its own while you experience spanking, nipple play, pegging, or even the F-Machine.

F-Machine

The power fucking-machine of legend. The machine can go as gently or as brutally as I deem fit, and as long as I deem fit. The machine never tires, whether fast or slow, it will give you the feeling of being used as a hole or as a toy that you deeply crave.

Chair

What I overlooked in my excitement about the attachments is the condition of the bench’s back legs. The bench also functions as a bondage chair for an intense and restrictive experience. Where the f-machine attaches, I can also place the vibrator, Tremblr, or my Handy stimulator.

Perhaps bent over the bench is too distant for you, and you dream of the bound and teasing experience while being face-to-face.

CBT

With all this forced pleasure and erotic domination talk, you would think that I left my sadistic side behind. The bondage chair position of The Dominator opens your legs and the possibilities for all types of cock and ball torment games.