Are Police Cuffs Good for Bondage Beginners?

by Domina M | Ask M

Of the kink cliches, the one I wish the most to stomp on, bury, throw in the bin, and set that bin on fire is the “fuzzy handcuff” or police cuffs as the symbol of being kinky. Often found in dusty boxes in the back of lower-end “novelty...

Leather Harness for Suspension Bondage

by Domina M | Top's Gear

I love rope bondage and rope suspension, but it is often too time-consuming and possibly painful for my male subjects. Not a problem with several leather sit swings available on the market for quick and comfortable suspension bondage. I bought mine two years ago and...

Lady-Sas.com — The Domina M Interview

by Domina M | This Week Tied Together

Lady Saskia contacted me with questions about my origins and play philosophy for her website Lady-Sas.com. I was honored to be approached and included among the other highly-regarded international dominas she has interviewed. Lady-Sas and I discussed many things...

Otherland–Dungeon Soundtrack

by Domina M | That Dungeon Play List

I created this playlist from bits and pieces I remember from my playlists in the early 2000s, but I find myself listening to it a lot lately, sometimes in play, but mostly to put my mind in that grounded but disconnected space. Synth music takes me out of the...

How do you Clean BDSM Dungeon Toys? 3 Important Steps

by Domina M | Ask M

Those outside of the fetish scene might not realize how much effort it takes to clean BDSM dungeon toys. Those who know will be assured with my elaborate disinfecting ritual. Every surface touched in my dungeon has a three-fold cleaning technique taught to me by...