What are BDSM Submissive Rights? 7 Rights You Need to Know

by Domina M | Ask M

In short, yes. Yes, of course. While free-falling into letting go of all control is the sensation subs are seeking, there are some rules to follow, and, in fact, they can take the worries off when a sub does let go, making for a better experience. I’ve put...

Dreamy TripHop Session Music

by Domina M | That Dungeon Play List

I have always considered myself a bit of a music nerd. I cannot play a note, but I have such a passion for music as an art form and how it intertwines and forms the experience in the space it fills.  I often brought this into my session music. When I began taking...

“Domme Mode” 3 Pre-Session Rituals

by Domina M | Ask M

Just as in writing a story, painting a tableau, or any other creative endeavor, there is a process, a beginning, before beginning. In this way, I need to clear my head for “Domme Mode.” I have some things that I do that transition me, not into top space,...

Anal Hooks, Are you Curious?

by Domina M | Top's Gear

My first exposure to metal anal hooks was through the infamous INSEX extreme bondage site, notorious for pushing the boundaries of safety and limits of their bondage models. This secured the image in my mind of the anal hooks attached to the nose-hooks of crying...

Metal Talons

by Domina M | Top's Gear

These simple claw rings have been my favorite toys for time eternal, well, at least since I first found them in Purple Passion NYC in 2002. I use metal talons a lot, though. For me, there is so much to love about these. The pure aesthetic of the long, knife-like claws...