How do you Get into “Domme Mode?”

by Domina M | Ask M

Just as in writing a story, painting a tableau, or any other creative endeavor, there is a process, a beginning, before beginning. I have some things that I do that transition me, not into top space, but prepared to meet someone’s energy. Almost always, this...

Anal hooks

by Domina M | Top's Gear

My first exposure to metal anal hooks was through the infamous INSEX extreme bondage site, notorious for pushing the boundaries of safety and limits of their bondage models. This secured the image in my mind of the anal hooks attached to the nose-hooks of crying...

New Playlists for you to explore

by Domina M | That Dungeon Play List

I’ve recently started a side project inspired by a conversation with Sybil Fury about rebuilding my session playlists over the decades. I always put a lot of thought into this part of my session presentation, and these thoughts have evolved over the years. ...

Social Media Butterfly

by Domina M | This Week Tied Together

While I am a veteran of Twitter with almost 14 years under my belt of random chats with people worldwide, I have spread my influence across multiple platforms, each with its own rules of engagements, so each is different, but all authentically me. There are a lot of...

Metal Talons

by Domina M | Top's Gear

These simple claw rings have been my favorite toys for time-eternal, well, at least since I first found them in Purple Passion NYC in 2002. I use them a lot, though. For me, there is so much to love about these. The pure aesthetic of the long, knife-like claws is so...