Ask M

Neurodivergence and BDSM are both being “normalized” in everyday life. Let’s explore how ADHD, OCD, and the autism spectrum fit into the larger BDSM scene.

Why does my partner want humiliation? Understanding the connection erotic humiliation can create during sex and play.

Yes women can and do love pegging and strap on play. Because not only does it create a new connection but it is titillating, sexy and plain feels good.

Aside from being a hackneyed joke, handcuffs are the worst entry into bondage. These so easily hurt beginners, leaving them scratching their heads over what all the fuss is about.

In short, yes. Yes, of course. While free falling into letting go of all control is the sensation subs are seeking, there are some rules to follow, and, in fact, they can take the worries off when a sub does let go making for a better experience. I’ve put together a starter set of rights