THE BLOG
Do Kinky Submissives and Slaves have Any Rights?
In short, yes. Yes, of course. While free falling into letting go of all control is the sensation subs are seeking, there are some rules to follow, and, in fact, they can take the worries off when a sub does let go making for a better experience. I’ve put together a starter set of rights
Domina M in New York City
New York City Residency July and August 2023 After years seven years of not touring, I've decided to take up summer in my old haunt, the city that made me, New York. And for six weeks, I will relinquish my hermit ways and be social throughout the fetish/burlesque...
Dreamy TripHop
I have always considered myself a bit of a music nerd. I cannot play a note, but I have such a passion for music as an art form and how it intertwines and forms the experience in the space it fills. When I began taking sessions in the late 1990s, TripHop ruled...
How do you Get into “Domme Mode?”
Just as in writing a story, painting a tableau, or any other creative endeavor, there is a process, a beginning, before beginning. I have some things that I do that transition me, not into top space, but prepared to meet someone's energy. Almost always, this process...
Anal hooks
My first exposure to metal anal hooks was through the infamous INSEX extreme bondage site, notorious for pushing the boundaries of safety and limits of their bondage models. This secured the image in my mind of the anal hooks attached to the nose-hooks of crying...
New Playlists for you to explore
I've recently started a side project inspired by a conversation with Sybil Fury about rebuilding my session playlists over the decades. I always put a lot of thought into this part of my session presentation, and these thoughts have evolved over the years. You...