Pegging in Paris
Strap-on Play and other Anal Games
Do Women Enjoy Pegging?
What’s in it for the dominant woman “strapping one on”? Not long ago, I polled my fellow strap-on-wielding mistresses about what they most enjoyed: the power exchange, the sensation, gender play, or pleasure for their partner. Not to skirt the direct question, but I appreciate all four aspects.
Like the most popular result, I find the ultimate mental enjoyment in the power exchange. My true fetish is dominance. I adore the rush of your submission and vulnerability. Often, this is the only time you put yourself in such a position, and it honors me. It empowers me. My adrenaline spikes as I make you into my play toy.
You might not know that although the apparatus itself feels nothing, I feel it as I use it—not as you do, but as a pleasurable feeling nonetheless. The friction from the strap on itself is especially highlighted if vibration is involved.
I, too, feel constrained by gender roles. I love being a cis woman, girlie-girl, but the opportunity to be the one penetrating is thrilling and decadent.
And yes, I love the pleasure you get from anal play. I am fond of saying, “An aroused man is a malleable man.”
“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”
-Oscar Wilde
Nature played a little joke on you. She gave you a potent G-spot but then tucked it away in a taboo place. Thus, you both fear and crave being penetrated. Perhaps your sense of fear makes crossing that boundary even more tantalizing. The taboo draws you into the idea of being pegged. It’s something secret you would never discuss in polite company or even close friends. You’ve never been conventional, though. Taboos may frighten you, but they frighten you towards them, not away.
You seek someone you can trust to guide you through the taboo. Nothing is more intimate than someone else inside of you, and you want to ensure you play with the right person. You want to experience the hedonism, nurturing, and submission that come with anal play. Because of the fear, craving, and taboo, you seek a dominant woman who can read you and expand on your experiences.
The Alchemy of The Dominatrix and the Prostrate
Why do all this? The prostate orgasm. That blinding moment where your mind whites out. Not everybody can achieve a prostate orgasm. In these cases, the extra sensation creates intense teasing. If you can’t get entirely to that blinding orgasm, you’ll spend an incredible amount of time right at the edge. If you can unlock that prostate orgasm, then you have the potential to endure multiple, repeated orgasms. Either way, you will fall into a helpless state of “subspace,” far away from the boring, mundane world.
Give yourself over to the pleasure of submitting to a dominant strap-on mistress.
The Build-Up
Even the most experienced players need to start small before they go big. I often enjoy prolonging the anticipation with teasing gloved fingers and heaping helpings of lubricant. For example, the most practical and comfortable position is bent over on a spanking bench. If you are feeling a little more adventurous, or perhaps you need visual stimulation as well, a gyno chair or sex-swing harness works well. Also, standing can be a comfortable and exciting way for you to receive a strap-on. As I am pretty tall, it may be logistically challenging for me, but we can work it out.
Why not try all of these experiences? Well, you should. Remember, you might want to try them all over a few sessions. Unless you are used to three hours of anal play, often one to two hours is enough. These types of sessions are usually quite intense.
Tools for the Strap-on Mistress:
Gloved fingers
Fingers are the first step in exploring anal penetration and a very intimate one. I love the physicality of my actual body being inside of yours.
Anal beads
Beads come in many sizes, but even the small ones do the job. Each “bead” or ridge provokes the prostate and rectum. Sometimes, to my delight, making the subject jump or shiver.
Enemas
Enemas range from practical use to becoming the erotic focus of the session. Most often, a quick irrigation of the area helps prepare for any anal play that might ensue. On the other hand, fetish enemas, for their own sake, or Klismaphilia, can easily take over the session as it can require 10-20 minutes to expel the enema’s contents. If this excites you, we can explore the more stimulating tools in my office, including special nozzles designed to vibrate, penetrate deeply, or inflate, ensuring everything stays put for as long as I wish. Aside from gentle soap, I can add glycerine or coconut water to help with hydration. A nurse cares about her patients, after all.
Anal Hooks
Metal anal hooks come in various sizes to fit your insides, but all have a curved attachment to keep it and you in place when incorporated into bondage. The appearance of the anal hook might seem cold, harsh, and rigid, but it quickly warms up to your body temperature and efficiently conducts the vibrations of a vibrating wand.
Anal Plugs
Anal plugs work well to dilate your opening while not penetrating too deep. Often, they slipout less than other anal toys and promote the gentle relaxing of the rectal muscles with increasingly larger plugs.
Inflatable Plugs
As with regular anal plugs, inflatable plugs help gently to open you up by inflating after insertion to provide pressure and dilation without much pain.
Prostate Massagers
A smaller type anal plug curved to stimulate the prostate gland. While it is more challenging to get the best feelings with penetration, these toys shine whilst being manipulated while already inserted.
Prostate Vibrators
The prostate massager but with the extra kick of a flourishing vibrating sensation that increases the intensity.
Electric prostrate stimulators
A special prostate toy that, while connected to a TENS unit, stimulates the prostate and/or the perineum with electrical sensations varying from arousing tingles to cruel pinches.
Electric Anal Probes
Using the TENS unit to push the sensation deeper inside of you.
Electric dildos
Also connected to a TENS unit, this insertable causes the muscles inside the rectum to contract involuntarily. The feeling is pleasant but focuses on your loss of bodily control
Silicon dildos of all sizes
I prefer high-quality silicon dildos for their flexibility, simultaneous sturdiness, and color possibilities. My tool chest has various sizes and shapes to match my mood and bottom’s needs. As a personal preference, if I am going to strap on a dildo, I choose functional shapes over “life-like penis” ones. I identify as a woman with a strap-on who pegs a man. I don’t have penis envy. My favorite brand, made in France, is called Strap-on-Me.
Vibrating Dildos
I use silicon dildos with vibrating adaptors, not the brutal plastic vibrators one might see in a cheap toy shop.
Strap-on Harnesses
I have several variations of harnesses: lingerie with a secret agenda, nylon, leather, and an impressive latex harness. It all depends on my pegging mood.
Fisting
Fisting is the ultimate in erotic connection and opening your body up for me.
F**king Machine
The machine may penetrate slowly or with rapid thrusts, but it does not stop. It adds an unrelenting experience while freeing me up to multiply your sensations.
Read to explore pegging?
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