The first date went horribly wrong–but actually wonderfully right–is such a common role-play. It’s as though I can see right into your psyche on this one. The softer cousin to a kidnapping role play, where a seemingly mild-mannered woman catches someone towards the end of the date, and suddenly he is tied up and gets his bits broken. The funny thing, he actually loves it!

What I find most amusing about this is the perpetuation of the fantasy where the woman knows his secret desires without him having to express any of them. You’d be surprised how many women would love to tie you up and bust your balls. You have to ask first, silly.

Shot at Brandi Minx of Lustomic.com’s place in Ft Lauderdale, FL.