Domina M’s Femdom Blog

Welcome to my stream of consciousness. I often include news of tours and new dungeon equipment, but also review my escapades in Paris nightlife and the BDSM scene in Europe. Occasionally, I enjoy sharing some stories and anecdotes I’ve gathered over my three decades of professional experience.

Shoe Gaze for Gazing at Shoes

Aug 25, 2023 | That Dungeon Play List

Adding a first edition iPod to my dungeon, I could create specific playlists–PsychoEmotional Soundscapes. And I thought of them that way.

Are Police Cuffs Good for Bondage Beginners?

Aug 23, 2023 | Ask M

Aside from being a hackneyed joke, handcuffs are the worst entry into bondage.

Leather Harness for Suspension Bondage

Aug 18, 2023 | Top's Gear

Domina M, the premiere bondage mistress of Paris, reviews a leather suspension harness she picked up on Etsy.

Lady-Sas.com — The Domina M Interview

Aug 15, 2023 | This Week Tied Together

Lady Saskia of Germany interviews international dominatrices including Domina M of Paris, France

Otherland–Dungeon Soundtrack

Jul 7, 2023 | That Dungeon Play List

These songs come from collections that worked for me in session because they are mostly without lyrics. Don’t get me wrong, and I love lyrics–poetry put to music, but these songs exist as soundscapes that put me in my mind, body, and movement.

How do you Clean BDSM Dungeon Toys? 3 Important Steps

Jul 5, 2023 | Ask M

Nothing is infallible and kills 100% of germs, but these methods are held to higher standards found in hospitals. With so much disinfecting, each material gets special treatment.

Femdom Retreat 2023 at Château de la Baroness

Jul 3, 2023 | This Week Tied Together

The celebrated designer and event promoter Latex Baroness started something in Beaujolais, France with a Château brimming with possibilities.

The Tremblr Milking Machine Review 3 Years After

Jun 30, 2023 | Top's Gear

Milking as a form of soft domination has gained popularity, and the Tremblr milking machine leaps ahead of the penis pumps and vibrators used in the past

What are BDSM Submissive Rights? 7 Rights You Need to Know

Jun 28, 2023 | Ask M

Entering the world of kink can be scary. You want to let go, but what is reasonable? What can be red flags? What’s straight up abuse and no longer a game?